Your personal support plan
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Fast skills for an intense moment
These are four simple, physical skills that bring an overwhelming wave down quickly. Use any one, or run through them in order. They're included on every downloaded plan. (You might hear a therapist call these "TIPP" — it just stands for the four skills below.)
Temperature
Cool your face fast to slow a racing heart.
Hold cold water or an ice pack over your eyes and upper cheeks for ~30 seconds while gently holding your breath. This triggers the body's dive reflex and brings your system down quickly.
Intense exercise
Burn off the surge of stress chemicals.
Move hard in a short burst — run on the spot, jumping jacks, or fast stairs for 5–10 minutes. Match the effort to your fitness and stop if you feel unwell.
Paced breathing
Make your out-breath longer than your in-breath.
Breathe in for a count of 4, out for 6–8. Aim for about 5–6 breaths a minute for a couple of minutes to settle your nervous system.
Paired muscle relaxation
Tense, then release, in time with your breath.
As you breathe in, tense a muscle group; as you breathe out, silently say 'relax' and let it go. Work slowly from your hands up through your body.
If you need to talk now
Free, confidential support across the UK. If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 999.
Emergency services
999
Immediate danger to life
Samaritans
116 123
Free, 24/7, for anyone in distress
NHS 111
111
Press 2 for the mental health option
Shout
Text SHOUT to 85258
Free 24/7 crisis text support
CALM
0800 58 58 58
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Papyrus HOPELINE247
0800 068 4141
For under-35s, 24/7
Mind Infoline
0300 102 1234
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